Cassy Fiano

Hi everyone! My name is Cassy Fiano. I was born in Jacksonville, Florida. My husband and I met when we were twelve, at a birthday party where he fell on the pool deck and broke one of his front teeth. I worked in several different fields until I got married. My husband and I knew that we wanted to have a family and that when we did, I would be a stay-at-home mommy. Last July, we found out I was pregnant, and on the day of my first doctor’s appointment, he deployed to Afghanistan. Unfortunately, during my pregnancy, I ended up with preeclampsia. Luckily, my husband returned the morning of my scheduled induction, so the day he came home from Afghanistan was the day we went to the hospital. 16 hours and a c-section later, we had our beautiful little boy, Benjamin. Being a parent has changed my life. I’ve learned to be more patient; that it’s possible to operate on two hours of sleep, and I’ve also learned that I never really knew what stress was until I experienced a baby crying inconsolably for four hours straight. I’ve learned that looking at my son sleeping in my arms can move me to tears, that I never really loved anyone the way I love my him, and that all of the hard times can be completely wiped away with one little smile. The last four months have been an incredible journey, and I can’t wait to share the rest of it with you!

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Divorce

divorce

This post is more of a call for help and ideas.  Unofficially, we are dealing with an upcoming divorce in our family between my parents.  It’s not like we haven’t dealt with this before, Austin’s parents divorced each other during the first year of our marriage.  The only difference is we didn’t have children that were old enough to understand what was going on.

Now, my three older children are big enough to know that their grandparents are married.  They know that they live together and that they love each other.  Sadly, they will soon divorce and I’m afraid this will leave my children wondering what happened, how it happened, why it …

jessica-lowe

Where is Isaak!?!?!

messy isaak

To say that Isaak keeps me on my toes, would not do justice his mischievousness, holy moly.  I can honestly say that NONE of my children have been as “creative” as Isaak is.  Let me give you just a few examples of the fun surprises he has for me on a daily basis.

The kid is obsessed with lotions and creams.  To be safe, anything that comes in a squeezable bottle needs to be put up really REALLY high.  Higher than just high because the kid is a master at dragging over chairs and stools to reach the items he has been forbidden to touch. 

I’ve found him sitting in front …

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First Real Swimming Lessons

I have mentioned in past posts about how I have been attempting to mold Isaac into a water baby like I was, with a decent amount of success, considering the fact that these swimming lessons have taken place only in his baby tub and our big tub.

We finally braved the whole new world of indoor pools last weekend with my mom and Marissa at the local YMCA.  I was hesitant at first  because of the chemicals in the water. Being a lifeguard I know how quickly the pH or the chlorine levels can fluctuate if not regulated closely.  This can cause the water to become either too full of these chemicals and irritate the skin and eyes, or too low in certain …

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Trouble In Baby Alcatraz

Even though my home is now under complete baby lock down, Sayle has once again outsmarted the Warden. Baby gates, new coffee tables with rounded edges, pocket doors, and cabinet locks are not nearly enough to keep my child safe, now I am going to have to nail my furniture to the floor or wall…like they do in prison.  Read my first post: “Welcome to Baby Alcatraz”

Sayle's favorite jungle gym

Sayle's favorite jungle gym

I have this lovely little table in my hallway, it has very ornate rod iron with a perfectly stained top-one of my favorite peices of furniture I own. I keep a plant we were given as …

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Sayle and the Doggie Door (Video)

This video is a prime example as to why we live on Baby Alcatraz.  Sayle has been keeping a close eye on the doggie door.  He documented the times the doggie door is usually open for business and exactly how the dogs use it.  When the opportunity presented itself, Sayle tried to make a quick break for the land of freedom, aka-the back deck.  Unfortunately, the Warden was sitting close by (with a video camera) and the dogs were on the other side telling him that door was the only thing in the house that wasn’t his.  Obviously, Sayle is taking everything in and figuring things out!

I thought I had a few years before I had to worry about him …

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Welcome To Baby Alcatraz

Sayle living big in Alcatraz (Picture courtesy of the Warden)

Sayle living big in Alcatraz (Picture courtesy of the Warden)

Sayle loves the bathtub.  He loves being in the tub and splashing in the water.  In fact, he loves the tub so much that even when he isn’t taking a bath, he crawls into the bathroom and pulls up on the side of the tub to bang on it.  Then he leans into the tub to the point where his little feet aren’t touching the tile floor anymore.  We now keep the bathroom door shut.   

Sayle has recently figured out how to open the cabinet doors and slam them …

 

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