Cassy Fiano

Hi everyone! My name is Cassy Fiano. I was born in Jacksonville, Florida. My husband and I met when we were twelve, at a birthday party where he fell on the pool deck and broke one of his front teeth. I worked in several different fields until I got married. My husband and I knew that we wanted to have a family and that when we did, I would be a stay-at-home mommy. Last July, we found out I was pregnant, and on the day of my first doctor’s appointment, he deployed to Afghanistan. Unfortunately, during my pregnancy, I ended up with preeclampsia. Luckily, my husband returned the morning of my scheduled induction, so the day he came home from Afghanistan was the day we went to the hospital. 16 hours and a c-section later, we had our beautiful little boy, Benjamin. Being a parent has changed my life. I’ve learned to be more patient; that it’s possible to operate on two hours of sleep, and I’ve also learned that I never really knew what stress was until I experienced a baby crying inconsolably for four hours straight. I’ve learned that looking at my son sleeping in my arms can move me to tears, that I never really loved anyone the way I love my him, and that all of the hard times can be completely wiped away with one little smile. The last four months have been an incredible journey, and I can’t wait to share the rest of it with you!

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I Guess He Likes The Altitude

Sometimes I think about what an odd little baby I have. Case in point: Ben’s obsession with standing up. And I don’t mean him standing up, although he does love it when you let him “stand” while holding his hands. Oh no. That makes me life far too easy. No, he likes to make Mommy work; for whatever reason, when he gets fussy, he will not stop crying unless I am standing up.

It is the strangest thing. He’ll have his bottle and then when he’s done, he’ll start crying. Or maybe he’ll be tired, or bored, or whatever the case may be. But for the past few weeks, sitting equals crying, while standing equals contentment. If I sit down after he’s calmed down and is happy, he starts crying again. When I stand back up, he’s almost instantaneously happy. It blows my mind.

And while I would do just about anything to keep Ben happy, this one drives me crazy. Standing for so long holding a baby that gets heavier every day is not easy. My back begins to hurt, my arms start getting tired… so I decide I’ll take a chance and sit down and give myself a break. And what happens? BOOM! He starts crying. I don’t even put him down. He just wants me to be standing up while I’m holding him.

I can’t figure it out. I don’t know what it is about me standing while I hold him, but that’s the way he has to have it. Maybe he just likes the altitude?

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